Mudtrailer wrote:I really recommend reading "On Aggression" by Konrad Lorenz ( Nobel Prize winner) I think you would seriously rethink what you wrote. Aggression has nothing to do with homo-eroticism.
No rethinking mate, I'm of freudian/lacanian school, it's all about language, the subconscious/unconscious (unbewusste), the death drive, enjoyment (juissance), phantasm, repetition, transference ... Lorenz's starting point is all false, he's applying animal life to humans and drawing parallels, which is - pardon my french - bull. Everything Lorenz is saying is secondary. In short: he doesn't explain where aggression stems from, just how we humans use it or channel it. He's masking the true nature of things. Is he unable to see it or he doesn't want to I don't know and at the end it doesn't matter.
My point: homoerotic component is present in EVERY male community. For some men that is unthinkable, they can't come to terms with that fact and they deny it, supress it and are willing to go far in order to not be associated with "the natural gayness" of their community. So they want to prove over and over again they are not gay, but no one said they were in the first place, just that homoeroticism is inscribed in the structure of the community. Instead of seeing that they rather fantasize about gay men as sissies, girlie-men, submissive spineless bitches and so forth, and the only conclusion that comes natural to them is that if they act aggressively they will be regarded as true men and no one will regard them as gay. Well tough luck.
Excession of aggression (like burning down villages with helpless women and children in them) is nothing but another attempt to prove to themselves they are true - not gay - men. Raping women is again an attempt to prove that: "look, I'm consuming a heterosexual relationship, I'm not gay." The disgust they feel towards that particular woman remains unreflected, as does the faggoty cheering of their buddies waiting for their turn. Their attempts fail precisely because all that drives them is infact "the gay". In it's negative form, true, but gay nonetheless: they want to prove they are NOT gay. And the proper question is: if you are not gay, why the need to prove it over and over again? It's because deep inside they know it all too well. The movie American beauty nailed that perfectly. That colonel (I mean c'mon, even coincidences are speaking for it!) really had bad luck with Spacey. Who knows, if he (colonel) could succesfully consume that particular relationship, maybe there'd be hope for him.
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