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#123187 by alucard0848
Sat Jun 03, 2006 5:00 pm
onmonday may 29th at 943pm my moterh died of a massive heqrtattack. she collapsed on to the coffee table, my borther called 911 an were ther ein less than a min.
whjile waiting my brother got mymom breathing again by doing cpr.
once 911 came they got her stable.
once a tthe hospitla thogh things went form bad to worst, her blood pressure dropped and brain waves ceased and as wellas pulse and heart.
and i had tot tell my younger borther omom had died.
all this week is beena big nightmare.
next day had to set up with a funeral parlor(which did an amzing job)
the following day i picked a cemetary to bury my mom.
meanwhile im doing non stop phone calls to people.
fri june 2nd was the wake. so many peolple came and mind u this is a big funeral home it was becoming over packed.
sat. june 3rd was d day. funeral services went well and smoothly.
my friend is an opera singer and he did 2 songs. the seocnd one was the most amazing version of ave maria accompanie by the church organ.
she would have loved that.
then the drive over to the cemetary even thoguh it was short it felt like forever to get there.
then the once, there they set the coffin with mom inside. everyone put a rose ontop and paid last respect. then it was me (age 25) and my brother(age eighteen) and we kissed our roses and placed our flowers last and said goodbye to our mom who gave so much.
and yes it was raining both days.
Last edited by alucard0848 on Sat Jun 03, 2006 8:36 pm, edited 1 time in total.

#123188 by alucard0848
Sat Jun 03, 2006 5:03 pm
a little bio

Born in Lodz, Poland on Dec. 23, 1955
Departed on May 29, 2006 and resided in Garfield, NJ

Elizabeth ( Wroblewski) Dmowski, 50, of Garfield died Monday at Hackensack University Medical Center in Hackensack.
Born in Lodz, Poland. Ms. Dmowski was raised there and had lived in Austria for a few years before coming to the United States in 1976, settling first in Elmwood Park and living in Garfield most recently. She had bee a Furrier since the age of thirteen and was presently employed as a Master Furrier with Neiman-Marcus in Mountainside, NJ. Prior employment had been with Central Fur Co. in Garfield and as an independent contractor for many other fur companies in the area and from 1990-1993 she had been the owner of Koppel Furs in Union.
Ms. Dmowski was predeceased by her father, Francis Wroblewski.
Survivors include: her sons: Robert and John Dmowski, both of Garfield; her mother, Janina (nee Gozdek) Wroblewska of Poland; her sister, Anelia Gawlik of Poland; and her nieces, nephews and godchildren.

#123190 by Persuader
Sat Jun 03, 2006 5:52 pm
My condolences to you man...hang in there.

#123197 by djskrimp
Sat Jun 03, 2006 9:10 pm
I'm sorry you lost your mother. By your posts, I think we can tell that she meant a lot to you. I hope you and your family endure this time with something positive, as negative as this time may be to you now.

#123200 by BlueRaja
Sat Jun 03, 2006 10:57 pm
:sad:

Sending positive thoughts, well-wishes and hugs to you.

#123203 by fragility
Sun Jun 04, 2006 12:41 am
Aw, I'm so sorry, I really don't know what to say

#123204 by kyl88
Sun Jun 04, 2006 1:07 am
My condolences :sad: My mom died unexpectedly several years ago...
(complications from sugery) and the first 3 months were brutal. Just hang in there, lean on your brothers, and grieve for as long as you need.
I remember several weeks after her funeral i wondered what the hell i used to think about- because grief can be consuming. It was all i thought about for months.
I wish you all the best...and wish i could think of something more say to help you...just hang in there

#123205 by Sowdust
Sun Jun 04, 2006 2:24 am
I'm really sorry for you. My dad died from a car accident 14 years ago and I still miss him. I'll have a thought for your mom and try to remember how to say a prayer.
Hold on. Take care. Hugs and kisses.
Sylvie

#123210 by Blazingmonga
Sun Jun 04, 2006 5:11 am
My best wishes to you, your brother and your whole family during this sad time. It seems that she will be missed.

By the sounds of it, she would be proud of you.

#123220 by Biert
Sun Jun 04, 2006 7:52 am
Damn that sucks man.... :sad:
I never know what to say in those situations... All the best to you, your brother and anyone else involved.

#123226 by sj_2150
Sun Jun 04, 2006 8:18 am
my condolances

#123228 by EphelDuath666
Sun Jun 04, 2006 8:27 am
my condolences...hope you and your loved ones will be fine!

#123233 by hog
Sun Jun 04, 2006 9:34 am
Hey man, you hang in there. Life can be so tough sometimes. Hope your coping ok.

Take Care
Hog

#123239 by Olive?
Sun Jun 04, 2006 11:18 am
My condolences.

I'm very sorry. I wish you and your family all the best from the bottom of my heart.

Be strong and take care.

#123260 by psychotic
Sun Jun 04, 2006 9:54 pm
Very sorry to hear this. I know that its especially hard when the death comes so suddenly. I lost a grandfather this past September to a brain hemmorage, and while I'd lost other grandparents before, this one was especially tough since it seemed to come out of nowhere.

You have my best wishes, as does your family. Just stay as strong as you can and I know you'll be able to get through this.

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