Well, this is all very disappointing.
I normally have ZERO time for blabbermouth, for all the reasons stated above. But I thought I'd look at the comments before posting here.
Tracy, what you do is your own business, and if you want to pull back from posting here, then that's your decision. I mean, who the hell are *we* to tell you what to do?
So, anything else I have to say isn't directed at Tracy or Devin... it's just my own reaction to the situation, for what it's worth.
What I find so troubling aboutall this is the thought that the mindless actions of a handful of people could have the power to prevent someone from doing what they want to do.
I think that any community, big or small, is based on respect. I don't think there is ANYTHING more important in this world than respect. For yourself, for your environment and for others. As soon as you lose that, everything else ceases to function properly.
I don't think anyone is just an "idiot". My dumb-arse, half-baked theory is that a lack of respect for others almost inevitably stems from a lack of self-respect. Actually, I'm sure there are a thousand philosophers, prophets and crazy folk out there who have expressed it more eloquantly than I!
Hehe! My point, if I HAVE one, is that we only have control over our own lives and we can only treat others as we would like to be treated. If someone is in such a dark, lonely place in their own lives that they feel the need to strike out against people they don't even know... damn, that's a tough existence. It must be a self-perpetuating state, too. That sort of attitude would drive people away from you, leaving you either alone or in the company of others of a similar mindset. Ugh! No thank you.
Thing is, there will always be people in that situation. It seems to be a primal instinct at times to lash out at others to protect yourself when you're weak, sick or vulnerable. And some people seem more prone to it than others. Theoryman summed it up pretty well... the net is a haven for people like that, due to the anonymity it provides. People wrap themselves up in it like a blanket and take potshots at passers-by.
There doesn't seem to be any logic in their choice of targets either. Why vent your anger or frustration on a bloke that entertains people for a living? And his wife and child? I mean, come on. Again, I think it's because it's easy, it's safe and, for all the potential damage these people can cause, they probably don't give it a second thought.
I have a job where people sometimes get angry or upset with me, purely because I'm doing my job. The fact that there is a very good reason why I'm doing it, and that in actual fact my job is to protect THEM, seems irrelevant. They're thinking about themselves.
That's what people do when they're attacking others, they're thinking about themselves. All we can do is show people the respect we wished they'd show us.
